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Online Companion: The Complete Student, Achieving Success in College and Beyond
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Chapter 1: Laying the Groundwork
Three Distinct Advantages
of College
The best college experience
is figuring out what college will mean to you. No book, teacher, or guru
can figure out your wants, desires, and expectations and put them into
action. That's your job. However, this is for sure: you can gain three
distinct advantages by earning a diploma.
Credentials
to Succeed
Many
employers today won't consider an applicant who doesn't have advanced
certification or a college degree. In addition to just obtaining a degree,
performing at a high level in school (Dean's List, Honor Society) can
add to your résumé. A college degree will widen your career options; and
adding more honors to your name will boost your salability even more.
Time to Learn
Skills
College teaches
students how to solve problems. People can use their degrees in different
ways. Some use the book knowledge they learned in school; others may find
the social engagements at college more useful. College, regardless of
anything else, gives students an opportunity to think about things, solve
problems, and approach situations.
Confidence to
Get Ahead
To gain
the most benefit out of college, you must put forth a solid effort. The
4 years at school don't necessarily build confidence, but working hard
to understand the concepts you are taught will. When you do well in school,
you begin to feel smart and confident and know that you can handle life's
curveballs.
From Ahead of the
Pack by Josh Richardson. Copyright © 2006 Thomson Delmar Learning,
a division of Thomson Learning, Inc. All rights reserved.
Reflections:
Your History
Take some time
to explore what being a student has meant to you so far.
- Which school experiences
have made you feel good?
- Which school experiences
have made you feel bad?
Have you ever discovered
something in school that excited you? What was it?
Using Positive
Self-Talk
That negative inner
voice that tells you how bad things are and how bad they always will be
has to be silenced. Talking back to it can help you change your beliefs,
attitudes, and behavior.
To change your beliefs and behavior, you needn't talk out loud in public,
but you can use positive self-talk. Positive self-talk has three characteristics:
Positive self-talk consists of "I" statements. "I" statements show
that you are taking control of your life.
Positive self-talk uses the present tense. Using the present tense
shows you are ready for action.
Positive self-talk is positive and enthusiastic. It focuses on
what is rather than what is not.
For example, suppose that Jessica's longtime boyfriend Brian has broken
off their relationship. Jessica wants to meet new people, but she makes
no effort to do so. Instead, she gets more depressed and lonely. Jessica
thinks, "Brian broke up with me so I must be boring and unattractive.
Why should anyone want to go out with me?" It would be far more helpful
if Jessica used positive self-talk. She could tell herself, "I am an interesting
and attractive person. I am looking for chances to meet new people and
form new relationships."
From Reaching Your Potential: Personal and Professional Development, 3rd
edition by Robert K. Throop and Marion B. Castellucci. Copyright © 2004
Thomson Delmar Learning, a division of Thomson Learning, Inc. All rights
reserved.
Food for Thought:
Gauging Your Self-Esteem
How do you know if
your self-esteem is everything it should be? Ask yourself the following
questions:
- Do you feel confident
entering a room full of strangers?
- Do you see yourself
as an interesting and worthwhile person?
- Do you feel as
attractive, well-dressed, and socially comfortable as others?
- Do you give yourself
a chance to try new things?
If you find yourself
answering "No" more than "Yes," you have work to do in this area.
Ten Classes You
Couldn't Take in High School
Your college education
is not limited to seminars that end in "101." There are so many new academic
choices-you certainly couldn't study the Films of Clint Eastwood in high
school, could you? Or, the History of Underground Comics? Both of these
are real courses that are found at some of our nation's colleges. Here
are 10 more real classes your high school never offered you:
"Science, Technology and Society in the Age of Jack the Ripper" (Pennsylvania
State University, PA)
"The Art of Sin and the Sin of Art" (Rhode Island School of Design, RI)
"Philosophy and Star Trek" (Georgetown, Washington DC)
"Dance 4 Men: Men Dance Too!" (Bates College, ME)
"Contour (Lingerie) Design" (De Montfort University, UK)
"Maple Syrup: The Real Thing" (Alfred University, NY)
"Rags, Rock, and Rap: Popular Music and American Culture" (Albright College,
PA)
"Open the Box: Studies in Television" (Carleton College, MN)
"Cultural Aspects of Food" (State University of NY, College at Oneonta)
"Space Tourism" (Rochester Institute of Technology, NY)
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